We
may love the wrong person, cry
for the wrong person. But one thing is sure, mistakes help us find the right person. – Author Unknown
Don't
take a good woman for granted, someday, someone will come along and appreciate what you didn't. – Author Unknown
This is directed mainly to my gal pals who read my blog but
also to any women who may stumble upon my blog. I’ve decided to put this on
here to discuss my fears but also hopes and just thoughts lately. To my gal
pals and others I know you have been hurt and are healing in different ways but
the quotes above are so true to you all that we may love and cry for the wrong
person and make mistakes but we learn and in the end find the right person
through all we’ve gone through. As for the second one it is a bit of a wise
advice quote for men, lol!
I haven’t been through domestic violence before and this is
not my advice or anything just my words to those out there and my own hopes,
fears, and thoughts. As I said I haven’t been through it personally but I’ve had
those I’m close to go through it and I’ve seen the effects and because of that
it’s made me a tad weary of relationships. I used to be a bit of a hopeless
romantic but reality set in but a part of me wants to see the world and relationships
like I used to but my eyes were opened to the imperfections of others and bad
treatment by some. It’s made me scared these 28 years to ever getting in a relationship
because I fear the moment a man will snap and it takes a lot for me to trust
someone so if it were shattered it would devastate me.
However I know in my heart that Jehovah God will bring the
right man to me at the right time and if it is right I hope I won’t be afraid
because I know troubles in relationships happen but I’ll know he won’t abuse me
and will treat me the way I deserve to be treated, with respect, patience and kindness!
Life isn’t about just finding someone but if your one who is
looking for a companion or partner to travel through life with then that right
person will show themselves. I know you will find the right man that will treat
you like a gem and protect you and be a support system for you and you for him as a
true partnership is!
Until that person shows themselves be strong and live as
happily as you can and if that person never comes be content with what you do
have! Those are words I’m trying every day to live by because I always wanted a
family but I’ve left that in Jehovah Gods hands and if he sees fit to bring the
right man into my life then that’s great but if not then there must be a reason
so I live each day content with what I do have, friends of a lifetime, a crazy
family I just got to laugh at and love, pretty good health if these stupid
viruses wouldn’t latch on every now and then, lol, hobbies I adore, blogs I can’t
live with out ;~) and blog readers I’m very grateful for and a God and religion I wholeheartedly
believe is right and true!
So live, dream, laugh, and love each day to the fullest!
Keep your eyes peeled for some day that right person may walk into your life but
if not then adore and live for what you do have or are striving to have, a
beautiful life surrounded by those beautiful people who enter our lives for a
reason, a season, and or a lifetime! :~)
I wish you all the very best life has to offer! And my apologies for being all over the place in this post, lol! It started out as one thing and morphed into another!
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